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Hello and Welcome!

Greta Bates 
Speaker/Author Coach



The most intensive group coaching program for healing the abortion wounded heart

The Hearts Unshackled community-based intensive is the only implementation program of it's kind that not only heals the abortion wounded heart - but empowers women of color to walk in their purpose and enjoy total wellbeing while doing it. 

Before I Tell You All About This LIfe-Changing Program, Let's Talk About Who This Is Really For...

You're a women a color with no lack of ambition who's tired of hiding in isolation filled with shame and guilt ready for access to new healing, that releases you from the chains of your past and the freedom to be all that God created you to be. The overbearing abortion chatter has hit you with unexpectedly and all too familiar emotions.


Whether You're...

  • steeped in shame from your abortion trauma and everything has snowballed leaving you isolated with limited community.

  • shackled to mental, emotional and spiritual shame and desiring help but guarded and keeping others at arms length for fear of judgment

  • content with therapy as a money suck crutch and you find yourself still deep in guilt hiding from your decision and afraid of being "found out."

  • in the waiting room of your life, faith weary and discouraged carrying the weight of your burden alone feeling like a second-class Christian and ostracized unable to go to your safe place - the church - for help.

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You're in the right place. Through gentle guidance and intensive work, you can be released from your shame and loneliness and find a compassionate community of women that support and champion you into an abundant life with a new sense of purpose and joy and the freedom found in faith and community. 

By the end of this program, 

you will have:

  • Cleared your conscious from all guilt and regret (instead of holding yourself hostage to unforgiveness.

  • Understanding and walking in your divine purpose (instead of spending yet another year just thinking about it.

  • Community connection that will give continual support for your newfound healing and freedom (instead of isolation and limited to no support)

  • Crafted a validated and proven framework for understanding the forgiveness narratives that establish feeling a sense of freedom and peace (instead of feeling emoitonal and spiritual shame keeping you guarded and insecure)

  • High-valued self-worth that empowers you to embrace a more complete and abundant life (instead of low self esteem and no clarity)

  • Power to be free and alive, empowered to navigate your present, shape your future, and heal what has been broken (instead of aimless living and deprived wellbeing)

  • Tools and resources that equip you to unlock your passion that fuel for discovering your purpose enabling you to walk into the life that God created just for you (instead of sitting in the waiting room of your life waiting for the abortion chatter to blow over)


"Greta is one of the most compassionate, gentle guides you could ever find!

Greta Be walks with you as she directs you towards your purpose. As you discover your purpose she cheers you on and continues to be a constant voice saying, 'keep going, you can do this. I identified and worked towards goals that I thought I could never achieve.

Michelle Davey 

Enroll in Hearts Unshackled 12-Week Group Coaching Program Today

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Meet Your Guide

A story of  healing and freedom 

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What's Inside...

Module 1


Your Heart

​Whether it is guilt, shame, fear, regret comfort, or confidence – all of these will and are making an impact on your mind and your heart. As you make begin your journey to healing and freedom, it is paramount that you locate, uncover, and validate your heart in a safe, judgment-free community submerged in empathy and compassion. The condition of your heart determines your unique journey while still part of a loving community. Your heart is the central life source of your being that is foundational in providing total wellbeing - spirit, soul, and body. We will prepare your heart for the journey ahead.

I know that with my support, guidance , you are fully capable to find freedom, and I know that with my support and guidance rooted in Biblical truths, and other women walking this journey alongside you while enveloped in empathy, love, compassion and understanding - you are fully capable to find healing and freedom.

Module 3


For Your Purpose

You will be empowered and equipped to make a conscious and intentional decision that you will no longer allow a decision of your past to continue to sabotage your present or future life. You will be encouraged to stand up and say, “enough is enough.” The discovery of your unique and divine purpose positions you to unleash the passion of your heart and embrace the transformation needed to reclaim your hope and step into a more meaningful and purposeful life. The dying embers of passion in your heart are reawakened as they collide with purpose and position you for success. 

Module 2


The Ugliness

Unforgiveness is the kryptonite to trauma. We will explore the "Two-Faceted Forgiveness Feat" The first facet is embracing the forgiveness that God has provided for you. The other facet comes by way of forgiving yourself. Both can be challenging and fluid. The regrets of your abortion choice can often render you powerless when it comes to releasing and validating it as a choice that was never meant to sabotage your present and future.  We deal with self-punishment, undeserving retribution, and self-judgment that cause us to waiver in both facets of forgiveness. We begin the unlocking process

Module 4


To BE YOUnique

Before I stepped into a life of healing and hope, I spent a lot of time just thinking about it. Wishful thinking mixed with faith, the Bible, a lot of self help books, women conferences and seminars - nothing helped. 

But then something happened that rocked me to my very core. And maybe you can relate to this…

One day it seemed like everything was fine. I was chasing purpose that always seem close but was ever evading me. Then suddenly I had a dream about my aborted child and without any warning whatsoever, I spiraled into deep grief over a child that I never met. 


Problem was, I had a hidden heart issue. I had an abortion-wounded heart. I really wasn’t sure what I needed but I knew that I needed help. Oh sure, of course I prayed, fasted, read the Bible. All of my Christian mandates were stacking up in the hard drive of my mind but my heart was wounded and my voice was silenced by shame, guilt and fear of judgement. 

I can’t even begin to tell you how this unexpected shocked me. It really was the proverbial wake up call. Because suddenly I realized I had to heal, or I was going to remain in the shadows of regret, lonliness and struggling with anxiety and clinical depression.


You can bet I got serious really quick. I stopped messing around. I stopped dabbling. And I started a journey that began with me trusting my heart to those that understood and had the tools of healing and hope that I needed.

I wanted to run to the church but most churches do not have a program to help women deal with the trauma of abortion. There is just too much spiritual nastiness around the subject.


I know your pain. I've been where you've been, hiding in the shadows of shame and guilt guarding your secret without the courage for a voice to speak to it but  I've also sought healing and gained understanding on how to move forward. I will 100% walk the road along side you. 

I went from shackled to shame to walking in healing and freedom to boldly walk in the purpose that God created me for. It wasn’t always easy. But I did it. And you can too.

Every choice you have made, making, or will ever make in your life will be driven by outside circumstances – your parental/guardianship makeup, the sector of your society, financial straits, systematic religious stigmas, etc. Abortion stigmas begin and end with the choice.  You may have never put your intentions into proper alignment because the loss of life was involved and understandably so. Nevertheless, your choice does not define you. It is time to walk in your purpose and experience total well-being while doing it. Purpose is a calling and nobody on the face of this earth can do what God created you to do, and he loves you too much to allow you to do it broken. It is your time to BE YOUnique. 

This is the time when you have to stand up and say, “enough is enough.” Today is the day when you can decide to change your life for the better by reclaiming your hope and discovering the life that you were created for.

You're here because you were meant to be

"There are times when I want to just tell someone about my abortion experience but I am afraid that they will judge me."

"When bad things happen to me I feel like I am being punished by a decision I made in my past - and that I deserve the pain."

"I never thought that I would find myself here, humiliated by something that nobody even knows?

"I feel like I am hiding in my own life isolated and choked by fear and shame unable to speak or share."

Had enough of feeling like this?

"I just wish I could talk to someone who knows how I feel and understand the pain, shame and guilt. I feel stigmatized and alone"

"My life is almost unrecognizable. I am connected to  a community where I feel wrapped in empathy, love and forgiveness."

"My self worth and identity is no longer rooted in a decision of my past. I am not my choice." 

"I matter and I am living the life I was meant to live - full of purpose and meaning."

"My abortion wounded heart is healed and I am free to be the best version of myself - spirit, soul and body." 

And you
want this...

Then Hearts Unshackled is for you

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Your heart may have been the place where humiliation and desperation rooted themselves once upon a time, but when you choose this time to be wrapped in the arms of empathy, love, and forgiveness, you will emerge with the beauty of a butterfly finally fulfilling its purpose.


You were always meant to find yourself here.


No more isolation. No more shame. Your family is waiting.

You are fearfully and wonderfully made. You are more than your choice. A safe judgement free community is here to help you to step out of the shadows and shame and into a more meaningful and purposeful life.

Enroll in Hearts Unshackled 12-Week Group Coaching Program Today

3 Monthly Payments of 


A One-Time Payment of


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